What does a first session look like at analog?
What does a first session of therapy look like? Glad you asked.
Once you’ve been met in the waiting area you’ll be guided back to our office. There you’ll find two chairs and a loveseat. We don’t have a special chair. One of the first parts of therapy actually happens in choosing where to sit. Not because we’re analyzing what does your choice mean but because we are encouraging you to engage your sense of agency and boundaries. We look to you and your nervous system to identify which space feels most comfortable to you. Additionally, we look to see where your nervous system feels best about where we sit as the threrapist. We might ask you if this feels okay for us to sit here. We are hoping you will track yourself and really speak your opinion. We might ask you how you know it feels okay. We are looking for you to check in with your viscera and sense whether you feel uncomfortable or at ease. There are no secret readings of the moment, you are the one who supplies us with the information.
After sitting down we’ll go over the paperwork you have already read and signed digitally. We’ll highlight key features like HIPAA, office policies, and how therapy works with us.
Then you’ll be invited to let us know what brings you to therapy. You can say as much or as little as feels right to you.
While we listen we will also be tracking your non-verbals, looking for cues of stress or trauma or places of activation (repetitive motions, shaking legs, wincing, pulling body or face away suddenly, etc.). Again, this is not to gain secret knowledge of you, if we notice something we’ll bring it up and wonder about it with you. You’ll be the one to determine whether it feels meaningful to that moment or not.
We might learn a couple of techniques like orienting, and SIBAM tracking (tools you’ll use throughout the therapy and beyond) and the therapist will work to give you a summary of what you’ve said and identify what a course of therapy might look like based on what you’re experiencing.
Finally, scheduling and frequency are determined together.
Payment is normally done by the clinician later on using the card you’ve put on file. Of course if you prefer other types of payment then that is used instead.
So there you go, a simple overview of a first appointment! The main thing we want to emphasize is that you aren’t being judged or secretly analyzed or read. We are collaborative and start with a paradigm of seeing you as a good person and seeing emotional struggles not signs of corruptness or flaws but as normal ways the body and mind work to cope.