By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum

How Our Brain Learns and Adapts: The Magic of Memory Reconsolidation

Understanding how our brains learn, adapt, and change through memory reconsolidation not only gives us insight into our own behaviors but also opens up new possibilities for personal growth and therapeutic techniques. Whether we’re dealing with past traumas or looking to improve our adaptive strategies, the dynamic nature of memory offers hope for lasting change.

Read More
By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum

The basic problem that brings people to therapy: Part One

I would wager that most of what brings people to therapy are emotional conflicts. Emotional conflicts are the results of some kind of trauma experience. When emotional conflicts come from growing up they are considered symbols of what’s called, developmental trauma (sometimes called “small ’t’ trauma”). When they are in connection to a shocking or harrowing moment or event they are considered symbols of what’s called, shock trauma (sometimes called “large ’T’ trauma”). 

Read More
By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum

Navigating Conflict Beyond Trigger Warnings

Conflict is challenging. It becomes even more difficult when a trauma response is triggered. Imagine treating a minor issue like a major crisis—a "five-dollar problem" escalating to a "five-hundred-dollar problem." This often happens unconsciously, making it feel like a rational reaction. So, how can we address a problem that we can't directly perceive? Here are three steps to help navigate this issue:

Read More
By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum By: Aaron Mitchum Aaron Mitchum

What Are Attachment Styles?

Attachment styles are ways people connect and relate to others based on their early experiences with caregivers…These patterns often continue into adulthood and influence romantic relationships. People tend to form relationships with partners who have similar attachment styles to one or both of their parents.

Read More